Melanie Michele Dillon

MMD Unlimited Concepts LLC

551-556-5977

Secaucus, New Jersey

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Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups I lived my dream of growing my business, living in the present, practicing love and care for myself and others in a healthy way.  I have met beautiful people along this journey.

I have now created Keys to Overcoming Stuckness & Finding Fulfillment in ALL Your Relationships, a series of steps that can be incorporated into everyday routines. Without opening old wounds or spending years in therapy. The following is what is included:

  • Self Care- such an important step that many times is overlooked. We must take care of ourselves properly before we can take care of anyone or anything else properly.

  • Clearing Our Space-The environment, we spend the most time in should reflect what our goals are and what we are aiming to achieve.

  • Grounding-a technique to help keep our energy up and our minds focused and present.

  • Meditation & Mantras- This is where connecting with yourself genuinely starts. You will be given explanations, guidance, and alternatives to practice.

  • What Is The Universe Trying To Tell You?- We focus on what keeps showing up in your life wanted and unwanted. What leads up to and what follows these events.

  • Changing Your Perspective- We all have fears and beliefs. We will look at what is yours and what was passed on through family or picked up from society.

  • Setting Intentions- Your mind is extremely powerful. We can live purposely and consciously by telling our brains what to see. 

  • Trusting Your Intuition- learning to trust yourself in all your decisions. Being able to know what is best for you by knowing yourself and your physical ques.

  • Raising The Roof With Vibration- We attract what we put out into the universe. How we truly feel is what shows up in our lives.

  • Seeing The Signs- take notice of what is changing both internally and externally in your world.

  • A Plan- It is essential to continue. As well as keeping these new tools in your everyday life forever -How will you keep growing?

Each step offered comes with explanations, guidance, techniques, and examples. 

 

If you have already tried changing things in your life, feeling lost, and know there has to be a better way to live, you should apply to become the creator of your own life!

Who are my clients?

I work with people, who just like you:

Are confused about what to do.

Feel lost.

Feel stuck in a cycle of struggling in one or more areas of life.

Have unhealthy relationships.

Feel depleted.

Are you always questioning your decisions or how you feel

Seek other's advice to give them the answers

Lack of confidence

Struggle with finances 

 Are strapped for time

Have unhealthy habits 

Feel resentful

Are going through significant life changes. 

Have begun or have come out of the dark night of the soul

Have love relationships that always end the same way

Know inside; there is a better way.

Feel they are supposed to be doing something different or more.

What makes me different from other relationship coaches? 

 

I use my intuitive intelligence as well as my education, career, and life experience to help guide you

I offer a program tailored to your individual goals

I will not only be your biggest cheerleader, your guide, your sounding board; I will also hold space for you in my heart.

I will be honest.  Although, at times, honesty is hard to hear, we need to be successful in this journey.

I believe that humor and inspiration are crucial in this process.

You do not have to be on a spiritual journey to work with me.

You can be in or coming out of the Dark Night Of The Soul to work with me.

I am concerned with how to improve your relationship with yourself — in turn, improving your relationship with love, money, and health. At times this process can be difficult. I will be there to keep you going!

What type of personality do I work best with, and what is expected of me?

Keys to Overcoming Stuckness & Finding Fulfillment in All Your Relationships was created for people who are ready to work on themselves. They are at a point in their life where they have tried so many things, such as changing jobs, outside appearance, reading self-help books. People that want to find wonderful, fulfilling love relationships, have more time, improve their money situation, and live a more healthy lifestyle. It means not running around all day, beating yourself up anymore, saying:

“ Why does this always happen this way? “

This program was created for you to immediately incorporate these steps every day, which eventually will lead you to be a conscious co-creator of your life!

I was the person who was lost, and life just happened to. I was stuck on survival, continually trying to put out fires. I knew there was more. With every fiber of my being, I knew there was more. I piece-mealed my growth, which made it take longer with more mistakes. I felt lonely, with no one “go-to” person to talk about my feelings and help me make a plan of action. That is what I want to offer you. I want to give you one place to go on this part of your journey. You will get someone (Me) to talk to; you will get explanations of why these things are essential and techniques to put into action every day. Once in place, it will help you through this challenging yet beautiful time where we are taking care of your needs inside and out. You will have my guidance as well as actions set in place to help yourself every day. 

 

This takes dedication to change and grow truly, to allow fear, old beliefs, and habits to fall away, to dig deep and be honest with yourself. 

You will be expected to complete assignments and show up for weekly calls. This commitment is crucial for you to live the life you were meant to live!

What type of people will my strategy not work for?

Please know I am very selective in whom I work with, and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to gently turn away anyone who is not suited for my program and will not get the results for which they would have signed up (it wouldn’t be fair to them). The Keys to Overcoming Stuckness & Finding Fulfillment in ALL Your Relationships program is not for those who are the chronic skeptics as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenges every aspect of the program. 

What exactly is Keys to Overcoming Stuckness & Finding Fulfillment in ALL Your Relationships, and what does it include?

Keys to Overcoming Stuckness & Finding Fulfillment in ALL Your Relationships begins the process of truly getting to know yourself. By meeting your needs on the outside while simultaneously getting in touch with the core of who you are. It helps you release anything that is not serving you on your journey to improvement. 

  • Twelve weekly 1:1 sessions with Melanie Dillon. Our sessions will be guided by the program; however, we can also work on anything that you may need at times. 

  • 12 weekly steps that include explanations, guidance, and techniques. The techniques can be implemented immediately in your everyday life.

  • Set goals that are tailored to your individual needs. 

  • Assignments that help implement steps into a daily routine.

  • A Distant Healing Session.

  • Extra support with Melanie Dillon in between calls through text or email.

  • Supplementary materials such as suggested reading lists and articles. ​

Does This Really Work?

Yes! The result of our work together is an approach to learning who you are at your core. Trusting you know what is best for you. Changing your perceptions, letting go of what does not serve you. Living fully in your life as a conscious co-creator. 

What will you get from this program?

 

Have a significant breakthrough and Ah-Ha moment.

Let go of and release past trauma in the body.

Forgive God and others and find more peace and compassion.

Create healthy boundaries.

Trust that you know what is best for you.

Practice healthy life habits.

Reach for your passions in life.

Discover your purpose.

Set goals and reach them.

Have enough time.

Let go of fears and old beliefs that no longer serve you.

Vibrate as a loving being, become genuinely unconditionally loving with all your relationships (even ones that have triggered you in the past).

Develop more compassion for yourself and others.

Be a co-creator in your life.

Be clear, concise, and honest in your communication.

Have more ease and grace in your life.

Truly love the version of yourself that shows up in  this game we call life 

Learn to say “No” and honor our yes, and no’s.

Find your happiness.

Live mindfully. 

Watch your best life unfold with ease. 

 

 

 

Education and Certifications:

B.A. Humanities (Concentration in Psychology)

Certified Elementary School Teacher

Developmental Specialist for Early Intervention (since 2009)

Applied Behavioral Analysis Programmer (since 2010)

Licensed Cosmetologist (wasn't kidding about changing careers)   

Certified Life Coach, American Life Coach Academy

 Certified Usui Shiki Reiki Ryoho levels 1 & 2   

About Melanie Michele Dillon


 

How long have I been doing what I do, and how did I become a relationship coach?

 

To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment and a resulting “compelling story” that brought me to where I am today- coaching people like you on exactly what to do to improve your relationships with love money and health. That defining moment in my life happened in 2013.

Another lousy relationship had ended in a drama-filled ball of flames. 

I was barely making ends meet financially. 

I was underpaid and underappreciated for my work. 

I never had enough time to get everything done. 

I was always worried about the future or feeling guilty about the past, what I could have done better.

I never could enjoy the now. Which meant people I loved like my children were not getting my full attention.  I had this unshakable feeling that there was a better way. There was more to life than this.

I was supposed to be doing something else. I couldn’t figure it out.

I felt lost and alone. Life just kept happening to me, and I was left to do damage control. 

As my son approached high school, I made a pact with myself. If I couldn’t find my way after he left for college, maybe it was time for me to leave this world. 

I know that’s pretty harsh, and I don’t suggest that pact for anyone, I didn’t want to die, but it was a relief to know there could be an end to this suffering. This screaming in my heart that life was meant to be enjoyed. That I had a purpose, it was maddening. 

It was at this point that I started to reach out. I always had an interest in alternative medicine, healing, and metaphysics. I started with the alternative medicine to help with my digestive issues and then spoke with a psychic and then a reiki healer. I began to understand that I knew nothing about myself.

I did not trust myself. It was at this point that I slowly began to do the work to know me honestly. What I wanted, what I believed, what was mine, and what were ideas and fears I picked up from others. I learned to trust my intuition. I started to take care of myself inside and out.

To love myself as a whole, the good parts, and the parts I wanted to hide. 

Slowly but surely, I began to live my truth.

All my life, I have wanted to help people. All my life, that’s precisely what I did. I was a people pleaser driven on the guilt that was placed on me or (I grew to do an excellent job of) putting on myself. It started in my childhood, and I never seemed to get a hold of it. So I did what others wanted and needed and not what I wanted and needed. 

As the years went on into adulthood, I continued the same way. I was already on a path, college, marriage, house, children. Although there is nothing wrong with that path, and I wanted that path, how I traveled, it was not the way I wanted to. Significant decisions of what I became, whom I married, where I lived, were all heavily influenced by everyone else, BUT ME. 

Even more, years passed by still nothing seemed to work out, marriages, jobs, it was always living in survival mode or trying to do damage control.  The Years continued, and the shit show of my life continued to be just that. I tried changing everything. I got a divorce; I moved, I found a different job in the field I was educated in, I found a new relationship. Still, everything was the same. The outcomes were the same in every aspect of my life! Wtf! I grew to feel unfulfilled in my jobs. There was never enough money or time. I became discontent with where I lived. Every new romantic relationship was like dating the same emotionally unavailable and at times, downright mean person in a suit of different skin. I tried to change everything that I could think of; nothing worked.

Until I learned to change my relationship with myself inside and out. 

So, I cleaned up my past and started teaching people how they can do the same; I watched as their perspectives changed, their confidence rose, their relationships become healthier and more fulfilling.  I have since committed to dedicating the rest of my professional life to helping other people who are lost and struggling, find their way to a beautiful experience that they were meant to live.